Showing posts with label LOSE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LOSE. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Bradley Stone - Another Family Court Suicide

Rest in Peace, brother...

They provoked you to the brink and blamed you for breaking.

My efforts to regain my constitutional rights and the protection of the law continue... for myself and other victims of judicial injustice.

My condolences to your family.

stonedead




WHY DOES TERANCE HEALY CARE ABOUT THE BRADLEY STONE STORY?

It's simple... because they tried to do the same thing to me.
...because Bradley Stone lost his voice in a media that never asks WHY DID HE DO THAT?
...because he will be dismissed an an angry divorce dad.
...because there was no alternatives to the abusive treatment.
...because the judges do not give a damn about you.
...because the courthouse people don't care.
...because an unwarranted level of disrespect and disdain exists for litigants
...because they are so threatened by what they have witnessed happening to nice trusting people
...because someone from the county (MCES) likely visited Bradley Stone 'to check on him' without knowing WHY they were checking on him... or who told them to do it.
...because no one deserves to be pushed to the point of suicide

The courthouse staff worries about what a person might do to them if they ever really find out everything being done to them... There's all kinds of secret orders, search warrants, wiretaps, etc... Too many secrets, false allegations, covert investigations, private investigators, DUI set-ups. They exist to secretly destroy a person... and the judges and lawyers watch and hide behind 'confidentiality'... and call you paranoid. It's not paranoia when it is happening.
DON'T ROLL YOUR EYES JUST YET... I"VE GOT RECEIPTS - PROOF - EVIDENCE.

Only in the Family Courts can someone who has committed no crime lose everything.



Divorce does NOT create the kind of response Bradley demonstrated.
INJUSTICE DOES.

When you have no protection of the law, ANYONE can hurt you and face no repercussions.
When you have no constitutional rights, ANYONE can say anything in a court room AND YOU LOSE.
When you beg for help, NO ONE HELPS. NO ONE. ANYWHERE.

It's not about gender, race, political parties or any of the other ways which are used to divide people.

It's about JUSTICE.

Race comes into it QUICKLY because when it comes to understanding INJUSTICE white people are completely clueless and the idea of injustice is incomprehensible. Whites who think they know still cannot imagine the experience. They read my web site and say "They can't do that." They know nothing of injustice.

White people do not understand injustice... they think the justice system works. They roll their eyes and figure you did something to deserve it. They will not believe you until they witness it... and even then they are in disbelief of what they have seen and heard. You cannot convince a white person otherwise... the concept is completely foreign to them.

Black people UNDERSTAND. They live with injustice as a part of their daily lives. They do NOT roll their eyes. They believe what you are saying. Every word. They look you in the eye with a sense of understanding and sadness that the illusion is gone for you. In their minds, they are thinking "THIS WHITE GUY JUST FOUND OUT WHAT WE HAVE KNOWN ALL ALONG."




Stone v Stone had been before several judges of the Montgomery County Court of Common Pleas.
Judge Barrett, Judge Rhonda Daniele, Judge Bertin, Judge Tolliver, Judge Tilson

Montgomery County Docket - Stone v Stone




1) No more lives torn apart.
2) Wars would never start.
3) Time would heal all hearts.
4) Everyone would have a friend.
5) Right would always win.
6) Love would never end.

This is my only lifelong wish. This is my grown-up Christmas list.

#StopFamilyCourtSuicide

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Chris Mackney - Suicide Note

The love that my daughter and I shared was truly special. She is a such a sweet, kind and gentle spirit. I am so sorry that I will not be there to see her grow into a beautiful woman. It absolutely crushed me to not be in her life over the last three years. I worked very hard as a father to build her confidence and self-esteem. She is smart, funny and considerate, but she didn’t know it yet. I pray that she realizes her strengths and her confidence in herself will continue to grow. I love you dearly, [name redacted].

My son [name redacted] was just entering Kindergarten, when I lost access to him. He is gregarious, outgoing and a great athlete. He is smart and fearless. He could have just as much fun by himself as he could with other kids. Even the older boys in our neighbourhood wanted to play with [name redacted]. It absolutely breaks my heart that I will not be able to help him grow into a man. I love you to, [name redacted]. I miss you both so much.

My identity was taken from me, as result of this process. When it began, I was a commercial real estate broker with CB Richard Ellis. I lived by the Golden rule and made a living by bringing parties together and finding the common ground. My reputation as a broker was built on my honesty and integrity. When it ended, I was broke, homeless, unemployed and had no visitation with my own children.

I had no confidence and was paralyzed with fear that I would be going to jail whenever my ex-wife wanted. Nothing I could say or do would stop it. This is what being to death or ‘targeted’ by a psychopath looks like. This is the outcome. I didn’t somehow change into a ‘high-conflict’ person or lose my ability to steer clear of the law. I’ve had never been arrested, depressed, homeless or suicidal before this process. The stress and pressure applied to me was deliberate and nothing I could do or say would get me any relief. Nothing I or my attorneys said to my ex-wife’s attorney or to the Court made any difference. Truth, facts, evidence or even the best interest of my children had no affect on the outcome.

The family court system is broken, but from my experience, it is not the laws, its the lawyers. They feed off of the conflict. They are not hired to reduce conflict or protect the best interest of children, which is why third parties need to be involved. It should be mandatory for children to have a guardian ad litem, with extensive training in abuse and aggression.

It is absolutely shameful that the Fairfax County Court did nothing to intervene or understand the ongoing conflict. Judge Randy Bellows also used the Children as punishment, by withholding access for failing to fax a receipt. The entire conflict centered around the denial of access to the children, it was inconceivable to me that he would use children like this. This is exactly what my ex-wife was doing and now Judge Bellows was doing it for her.

To all my family, friends and the people that supported me through this process, I am so sorry. I know my reactions and behavior throughout this process did not always make sense. None of this made sense to me either. I had no help and the only suggestion I got from my attorneys was to remain silent.

At first, I did what I was told, remained silent and listened to my attorneys. Then after I had given my ex-wife full custody to try and appease her, I learned about Psychopathy and emailed Dr. Samenow about my concerns and asked him for help. Of course, I was ignored. As the conflict continued, I was forced to defend myself. When that didn’t work, I thought I could get the help I needed by speaking out. There is no right or wrong way to defend yourself from abuse. Naively, I thought that abuse was abuse and it would be recognized and something would be done. I thought speaking out would end the abuse or at least get them to back off. It didn’t. When no one did anything they were emboldened.

I took my own life because I had come to the conclusion that there was nothing I could do or say to end the abuse. Every time I got up off my knees, I would get knocked back down. They were not going to let me be the father I wanted to be to my children. People may think I am a coward for giving up on my children, but I didn’t see how I was going to heal from this. I have no money for an attorney, therapy or medication. I have lost four jobs because of this process. I was going to be at their mercy for the rest of my life and they had shown me none.

Being alienated, legally abused, emotionally abused, isolated and financially ruined are all a recipe for suicide. I wish I were stronger to keep going, but the emotional pain and fear of going to court and jail [because of exorbitant child support] became overwhelming. I became paralyzed with fear. I couldn’t flee and I could not fight. I was never going to be allowed to heal or recover. I wish I were better at articulating the psychological and emotional trauma I experienced.

I could fill a book with all the lies and mysterious rulings of the Court. Never have I experienced this kind of pain. I asked for help, but good men did nothing and evil prevailed. All I wanted was a Guardian Ad Litem for my children. Any third party would have been easily been able to confirm or refute all of my allegations, which is why none was ever appointed to protect the children or reduce the conflict.

Abuse is about power and control. Stand up for the abused and speak out. If someone speaks out about abuse, believe them.

Please teach my children empathy and about emotional invalidation and ‘gas-lighting’ or they may end up like me.

God have mercy on my soul.

Chris Mackney

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Chris-Mackney-RIP/542633505845524


mcakney

AND THE EX WIFE KEEPS ATTACKING.... SOCIOPATHS ARE NEVER SATISFIED.

CHRISTOPHER MACKNEY (Age 45)

Of Arlington, Virginia died tragically December 29, 2013 in Washington, D.C.

Chris was born to the late Gregory and Carolyn Machnij in Boston, MA. Chris graduated from Chaminade Prep School in St Louis, MO and from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, Texas. He worked in New York City for Bloomberg before relocating to Vienna, Virginia to embark on a career in commercial real estate in the Washington, DC area.

Chris was a loving and devoted father to two children, Lilly and Jack of Vienna, Virginia. He was a bright, engaging, articulate, and thoughtful friend to many. Chris would always proudly say that his children were the most important people in his life. Chris is survived by his two children and two brothers - Jeffrey of Lomita, CA and Gregory of Gardena, CA as well as relatives in Ohio and Colorado.

Chris was an active and passionate advocate for spousal rights in the area of family law and made the world better by bringing awareness to this important element of modern society. His active blog www.goodmendidnothing.com provided education to others while documenting his real life experiences.

Services will be held in California in the Spring.

In lieu of flowers, many friends, colleagues, and members of the community have chosen to donate to www.batteredmen.com.

ONLY IN THE FAMILY COURT CAN SOMEONE WHO HAS COMMITTED NO CRIME LOSE EVERYTHING.